I hit back, and kept hitting. I was afraid to stop hitting.
When I was in junior high I had a bully. He waited for the school bus at the same location as me. He was good-looking, and already smoked: the girls loved him.
I was tall, but still skinny. New to the area. And bookish.
He'd pick on me as we waited, and the girls waiting there for the school bus would laugh.
I had previously told my mother about the situation, and she had counseled me to ignore him. That wasn't working.
This time I went in to talk to my Dad. My Dad was an ex-Marine. His eyes perked up when I told him my situation. He then explained to me that I had stand my ground, or it wouldn't stop. Make him throw the first punch. And, if I lost, there was nothing to be ashamed of. But if I won, make sure the bully fully knew that I won.
So the next day at the bus stop my bully picked on me, as usual. The girls laughed, as usual.
I told him I was tired of this, and dared him to throw the first punch. Daring someone as a kid was a big thing. He laughed, threw a punch, and missed.
I hit back, and kept hitting. I was afraid to stop hitting. Even after I had him on the ground I kept hitting, until he yelped for me to stop.
The girls weren't laughing now, which might have even been better than beating him.
The next day at the bus stop he lit up a smoke, then offered me a cigarette.
I accepted. I didn't know how to smoke, but I did my best. Coughing, etc. He told me everyone coughs when they have their first cigarette, no big deal.
We didn't become friends or anything. But I got to join the circle, waiting for the bus.
--jj
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